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You Have A Lot Of Faithless Faith
This is not a religious article. That might bring the heathens comfort. But regardless of your religiosity, or lack of it, you put a remarkable amount of faith in many things, and expect them to be a bedrock of stability. You build your life on top of them without ever formally acknowledging that you’re depending…
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Why I Struggle To Trust People In Need
You might be judging me already. That’s okay. Most people see the speck in someone else’s eye without noticing the log in their own. Everyone is a humanitarian, especially behind their keyboard. But before you decide what kind of person I am, understand this: people who have seen very little are often quick to judge…
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Getting A Girlfriend Was A Great Idea; Waiting 7 Years Was An Even Greater One
And before some buffoon states the obvious… I know… “Getting Married Is The Greatest Idea.” I promise to write that continuation once it applies. Today (February 20th, 2026) is our two year anniversary. There’s so many ways I can go with this rumination because there are so many facets to her personality, her quirks, her…
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Why The Barbershop Is The Hood’s Therapist
This rumination explores why the barbershop often functions as an informal form of therapy for many men. A space where community naturally forms. There was a guy in the shop who had taken a prostate exam.And another guy who was scared to take one. Everyone was joking, but not the kind of joking that feels…